- Try to convince Blair to be the one who makes the sacrifice no parent should have to make, I lose Blair and he loses his entire family.
- Let Blair and Dexter leave so I lose my fiancée and one of my sons. I lose one of my Canadian born sons and my fiancée.
- I go to New Zealand with Blair and Dexter. I lose my 6 year old son who’s father will not allow him to leave with me and he loses his mother.
Saturday, September 27, 2014
Thanks a lot Canada
Sunday, September 14, 2014
Hopelessness
Well, a long time has past and still no resolution. It took CIC a month and a half to review the refusal of my work permit and to refuse it again all the whole providing me with conflicting information. Post it here, no email it and it will be done within 24 hours, there is no email address so post it. Since you posted it a couple of weeks ago you will hear by the end of the week. Nope, you might never hear anything at all about it, they will definitely have a decision within a month, there is no way to know how long it will take them. I am sorry if this post seems negative about Canadian immigration but I have worked in several countries around the world and dealt with countless government agencies, and never have I ever been so badly messed around, misled, and let down.
We are getting further into debt and closer to bankruptcy and losing the house I bought for my family. There is no light at the end of the tunnel and no prospects for success. I can't help but wish we had the option of giving up and going to live in New Zealand for a while, I have tried everything and come out empty handed or empty pocketed to be more accurate. Apparently immigration doesn't care that I have Canadian kids to feed, I should just sit around with no income for a further 8 or 9 months waiting for first stage approval on my residence before I can actually buy diapers or baby food, but god no matter how much I try I just can't convince my 9 month old son to stop eating or pooping. The amount of stress this is putting on me has made me break out in hives for the first time ever and is also giving my fiance constant migraines and making her feel physically ill.
I was told I put the cart before the horse applying for a work permit before getting first stage approval on my residence application. How the hell could anyone in my position put the horse before the cart?
I came to Canada on a tourist visa for a few months, my Canadian girl friend got pregnant, so i got a 12 month working holiday permit, which was the only one available to me at the time, and got a job so I could support the family while my fiance was suffering from a very rough pregnancy and couldn't work. I applied for residence after 12 months when I was considered to be in a common law relationship. When my non-extendable work permit was running out I applied for a new work permit to allow me to work while waiting the 12 months for a residence application to get first stage approval. Some one please tell me what I did wrong here because I don't see how I could have done anything better?
So my advice to anyone considering coming to Canada and getting themselves into a position like mine is DON'T DO IT, not even if you think you have the money to get by for 2 years without working....I brought $130,000 into Canada from New Zealand and it is gone.... Mortgage companies are not super excited to lend money to someone who isn't a resident and doesn't have a credit rating in Canada despite a perfect credit rating back home....so expect to pay double the down payment that someone else might. And if you do get a temporary work permit and are a professional with a decade of experience and glowing references prepare yourself to earn half what you used to.... Why would anyone want to hire someone who may just end up having to leave the country?.... And even when you do find a job you probably won't be able to get a second work permit and may have to leave your kids behind, missing their first steps, first words or other important milestones in your children's lives because you have to leave them behind to go home and work because there is such a big backlog of applications that it takes 18 months for a residence application. Maybe you would get luckier and work directly for a company or even for a halfway decent recruiter who will obtain a Labour market impact assessment for you instead of messing you around for weeks until it is too late to arrange anything.
Hey CIC, I have a fantastic idea for you. Why don't you give some of the people who you won't give work permits to jobs to help clear your backlog? Kill two birds with one stone. Or maybe you should just look at amending the rules to cater for the huge backlog so someone like me me with Canadian kids to feed doesn't get totally screwed.